viking-sunrise:

girly-so-groovy replied to your post: girly-so-groovy replied to your link: How Zooey…

do you mind if i reblog this to explain why i didnt like it? i cant fit it here or in the askbox

yeah totally! im always down for input/opinions

again i’d like to stress that i dont mean anything i say here as a personal offense to you because you liked that post, im just saying why i dislike it. 

so, ok, i was reading it, and in the first page it was kind of right, like, the part where she says some guys think theyre better because they want to fuck a “deep” girl, instead of wanting to fuck, idk, beyonce? and she said a few things i couldve gone without, like “magical vagina”, but it was ok

then the second page (to me, obvs) reads “i blame zooey deschanel for making me think it would work to go completely out of my way and emulate another person’s thoughts to get guys” when 

1) every teen does that?? she just sounds like she has special snowflake syndrome, like “omg, zooey you made me do something in my teens that i would regret years later, and i am so pissed at you for making me be the 1st person in the world to go through that!!”

2) its not zooey’s fault if the writer of the article would rather be worshipped by that kind of men who think they are really something because they would rather have sex with an “adorkable” girl, rather than the usual porn star, than being herself and wait for someone who appreciates her as she is. i for one, blame our patriarchal society, that tells us since we pop out of the womb that, the best thing a woman can achieve in her life, is to find a man who wants to stick with her (love is optional)

it could have been a funny post, though, but then she said ‘now i dont blame her anymore’ and it was +1-1=0 you know 

idk, i just saw a lot of girl hate and i do not approve of that, i mean, what did zooey actually do, you know? haha she’s just an actress, as far as we know, she’s quirky and “adorable”, etc, but we dont really know her, we just see her on tv, she shouldnt be held responsible for our thorough interpretation of her personality from the .5% of actual information we’re given about her life. i mean, she got divorced, how’s that for the stereotype of “perfect dream girl”? lol 

p.s.: im not a big fan of hers neither, she’s just not my cup of tea

why does justin theroux look so good though

look at him

wtf

and what if guys 

what if

imagine that we lived in a world 

where

when people think your clothes dont make any sense

they kept 

quiet

because those are your clothes not theirs?

imagine if someday for example you like saw some girl with hairy pits and hairy legs and instead of saying she is disgusting and that you shouldnt have to see this and that youre offended what if like

hypothetically 

you looked 

the other way?????

xvxavier:

If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.

amen i love you xabi

neotomacinerea:

reminder that taking a tumblr hiatus because you feel lonely is like eating because you feel full

Signs and symptoms of Internet addiction or computer addiction

hex-girlfriend:

• Losing track of time online. Do you frequently find yourself on the Internet longer than you intended? Does a few minutes turn in to a few hours? Do you get irritated or cranky if your online time is interrupted?
• Having trouble completing tasks at work or home. Do you find laundry piling up and little food in the house for dinner because you’ve been busy online? Perhaps you find yourself working late more often because you can’t complete your work on time — then staying even longer when everyone else has gone home so you can use the Internet freely.
• Isolation from family and friends. Is your social life suffering because of all the time you spend online? Are you neglecting your family and friends? Do you feel like no one in your “real” life — even your spouse — understands you like your online friends?
• Feeling guilty or defensive about your Internet use. Are you sick of your spouse nagging you to get off the computer and spend time together? Do you hide your Internet use or lie to your boss and family about the amount of time you spend on the computer and what you do while you’re online?
• Feeling a sense of euphoria while involved in Internet activities. Do you use the Internet as an outlet when stressed, sad, or for sexual gratification or excitement? Have you tried to limit your Internet time but failed?

Physical symptoms of Internet addiction

Internet or computer addiction can also cause physical discomfort such as:

• Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (pain and numbness in hands and wrists)
• Dry eyes or strained vision
• Back aches and neck aches; severe headaches
• Sleep disturbances
• Pronounced weight gain or weight loss

i just want to let all of you know that me being a vegan does not make me a fucking crutch, i don’t have a crystal ball, so i can’t know when people tested stuff on animals or put animal products in my food, if they don’t blatantly say that on the nutritional information or when i ask them via email or telephone. i am not going to go back to drinking milk, or eating eggs, or even worse, EAT MEAT because you see me as less of an empathic person because plants are also dead. if you feel bad in any way because you know that meat is not all fun and games, i am not the person to take it out on, i don’t care if you barely eat meat, or if you don’t care that they are dead because they are tasty, i, personally, am against that, and i don’t want to eat something that cried whilst dying, i don’t want to eat a chick that had its beak cut so it could be fed easily so it would get fatter, i don’t fucking want to be part of that system that treats SENTIENT BEINGS as products, and i do what i can to not be a part of it, so i am sorry if i am not 100% out of it, since i take medication and occasionally step on ants, but, believe me, it is way better than being 100% on it and proud, and try to bring someone down for trying to do something good, just because you know it is good but can’t be assed to do it. 

tumblr: teaching people that self loathing is annoying, one rude anon at a time 

i really appreciate it when blogs that don’t have anything to do with mine aesthetically follow me ヘ(^_^ヘ) it’s the best

makes me feel like i have a good blog

fancifulism:

i reblogged that too

why did you reblog it from someone else

i thought we were tomodachis

(via zelie)